An evening with John Kirwan
Over 500 people gathered in Te Aroha last month to listen to Sir John Kirwan, or JK as he’s most commonly known, share his humble yet powerful words on managing mental health and the process of moving from surviving to thriving. It was an important message for rural communities. Across the country there is a common theme emerging of people on farms who, over the past few years, have persevered through challenge upon challenge. Over time, this feeling of facing a battle on many fronts takes a toll. The result is once lively people looking weary, worn down and having lost their spark. This was apparent to Theresa Tomkinson and Rex Madden, who work together at PGG Wrightson Tatuanui. Theresa has an eye for spotting when things are off with someone. As the saying goes, it takes one to know one. Recently Theresa has experienced the loss of her brother in December last year and dealt with her dog being run over. She also experienced a reaction to a COVID vaccine and had to deal with the stress of COVID vaccine mandates earlier in the year. As a result of all this Theresa had started having panic attacks. She knew she wasn’t okay and decided to have a chat to Rex, Store Manager at PGG Tatuanui. While many well-meaning managers can inadvertently foster a culture of productivity first, people second, Rex is a bit different. As Theresa explains. “Rex is really open. It’s really good to have a boss you can talk to when things build up”. Thoughtfully, she adds “But the relationship needs to be there to start with. Bosses need to be approachable, and you need to know that they care.” Having reached out, and with Rex’s support at work, Theresa tried some different avenues and eventually found the professional assistance she needed. Over the next few months Theresa’s wellbeing returned, but she started noticing the wellbeing of customers coming in. Farmers who had gone through drought and other challenges, who, while normally very happy, were not ok. She says, “We’re a retail store, but it’s a different kind of relationship here compared to other big chain stores. We have relationships, we know our customers names, their partner, where their kids go to school, what’s going on at the farm. They’re not scared to talk to us, and they know it stays between us”. Rex also noticed people struggling. “There was a greater need.” he says, “We saw people were struggling on a large scale, and not just our customers. People in many local businesses were having a tough time. Others we spoke to were seeing it too.” Rex recounts one conversation in particular with Steve Allen, Chairman at Tatua factory across the road from the store. “Steve came over one day to see Theresa for a trailer load of mag. She was talking to him outside and he was asking about how the farmers are and how things are going. What stood out was the real empathy he had for people. So, Theresa and I thought we’d talk to Steve about doing something.” Two weeks after their initial chat with Steve, Rex and Theresa met again with Steve and Brendan Greaney, CEO of Tatua Dairy Company, Kathy Paton, Brendan’s PA, Wanda Leadbeater, Coordinator at Rural Support Waikato and Neil Bateup, Chairperson of Rural Support Waikato, to see what they could do to support local farmers in the Haruaki Plains, Morrinsville, Matamata and Te Aroha areas. By the time the group held their second meeting, they saw the need for an event that could draw people from far and wide. Theresa recalls, ”At first, we were looking just to target farmers, rather than growers. At the second meeting we changed it to anyone dealing with the rural community. I’d recently had a horse dentist come in to do my horse’s teeth and she talked about pressure on vets. So, we decided we needed to maximise attendance.” “We wanted anyone to feel they could come, and not have people think it was just for PGG Wrightson customers. The timing was important too, we wanted it to be at a time when people could attend, not at a time they were busy on-farm. It was ideal to have Rural Support as the main face of the event, as they are nationwide and have all the professional systems and processes in place to support people. RS had councillors on hand at the event too. It’s a lot easier to talk to someone when you meet face to face”. The event drew over 500 people from Te Aroha to Bay of Plenty, with over a third of the attendees travelling over 50kms to attend. Rex and Theresa greeted every attendee at the door and invited them to enjoy the tables laden with steaks provided at no cost by local meat company, Greenlea Premier Meats. The meal was combined with a warm welcome from Steve Allen, followed by an introduction from Neil Bateup of the ever inspiring JK himself. The highlight of the night was JK’s presentation, as one attendee described later, “JK just blew us all away with his helpful, informative amusing and totally entertaining hour or so.” Rex recounts the generosity of the local businesses and community groups that supported the event. “The local support we received was outstanding. Stu and the Morrinsville Lions Club worked one of the three the BBQs, and they set up all the tables to a restaurant quality which made the dining very streamlined. Our local supermarkets, New World Morrinsville and Matamata, and PaknSave Thames provided volumes of bread rolls and salad. We thought we’d approach a few of the big accounting firms for support, but one chat to the team at Cooper Aitken was all that was needed. The team jumped on board and Vanessa joined the working group. Everyone who came on board contributed to the success of the event”. Over the hour, JK explained how he rolls out his day and
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